~ everybody is a star ~

wow...

2011-11-26T10:12:00.000-05:00

I almost forgot how to post to my own blog! Which obviously has not been much of a priority. Funny how life changes and takes over. Then hopefully there comes a time when you can get back on track. I think I'm kind of getting there. Not sure. We'll see. But another winter is upon us and with it the holiday season. May we all be blessed with good things :)

PS: Thanks Sam, for reminding me of my blog!

change

2011-03-02T19:33:00.003-05:00

In general, change is good. That doesn't mean it's easy. I don't believe in regrets, no matter how difficult the situation may be, because I've met wonderful people along the way. Besides, we can only do the best as we can as we know it at the time. It's easy to say I should have.... you should have... after the fact. So we take it day by day and hope for the best.

time

2011-02-14T20:21:00.002-05:00

Wow... I almost forgot I even had a blog! Funny that my last post said that I was looking to get back into this and look how long it's been. Since then, I have lost a job, relocated to a new area and have been in transition. Interesting word. I have not written at all since the move and only started looking onto Improv groups about a week ago. Anyway, we'll see if I'll be back on here anytime soon again. Just thought to say hello to anyone who is still here that I used to be in touch with. Hope all is well :)

hello....

2009-08-01T16:10:00.001-04:00

Is anyone out there? Just sitting here with a couple of friends and I was wondering if anyone still checks in or not. Considering to get back into the blogging world... we'll see. Hope everyone is well.

back to work

2008-09-04T14:44:00.002-04:00

And they say, "Back to School." How about, "Back to Work!" Not that summers slow down as much anymore at my job as they used to years ago... but normally that's the time when people are off work more often and the days are longer and the sunlight inspires you in different ways.... beach/pool, road trips, street fairs, skydiving... what have you. Now Fall is around the corner which only means that soon it will be winter. I can feel my seasonal depression s l o w l y creeping up to the edge. Not looking forward to my yearly upper respiratory infection and all that comes with it. Not looking forward to leaving work in the darkest of sky. Not looking forward to it being a major process to motivate myself to do anything but lay on the couch. Not looking forward to our department's hectic season now until after the New Year.

Thankfully, I have my adorable Mio (remember him? my shih-tzu?... remember me?!) who is always so happy to see me when I get home! What would I have done without him?

I hope you are all well. Maybe I'll get back on the blog track. We'll see. Take care :)

babies

2008-02-23T14:42:00.002-05:00

Hi... it's been awhile and I hope everyone is doing well.

At work, we are gearing up for March for Babies (formerly known as WalkAmerica). This is the biggest fundraising event for March of Dimes. Please check out my personal website at http://www.marchforbabies.org/lgagliardi for more info and to help me reach my goal.

Your help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

nothing

2008-01-22T19:00:00.000-05:00

I really don't have much to say right now. Just thought to say hello. Hope everybody is doing well. I just picked up my Reach for the Stars quote book and found an appropriate quote. Well... it has the word "nothing" in it and I have nothing to share - appropriate enough for me!

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing. To keep our faces towards change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is stregnth undefeatable ~ Helen Keller

My face is towards change alright, still don't have anything else to say though. Maybe you can tell me something new going on with you :)

holidays

2007-12-09T08:17:00.000-05:00

So much for health/wellness. Let's just not go there. Instead I wish you all Happy Holidays!! Enjoy this special time of year with family and friends. Create special moments. Smile. Laugh. Love.

reach for the stars

2007-10-07T14:53:00.000-04:00

I received a little book of quotes called, "Reach for the Stars" compiled by Janet Terban Morris. From time to time, I will share quotes from the booklet. May it inspire and/or assist us. Best.

You gain stregth, courage and confidence

by every experience in which

you really stop

to look fear in the face.

~Eleanor Roosevelt

quote & comment

2007-09-27T17:19:00.000-04:00

If civilization is to survive

We must cultivate the science

Of human relationships-

Tha ability of all peoples,

Of all kinds,

To live together,

In the same world at peace.

~Franklin D. Roosevelt

At work we encourage diversity. This month we have all kind of activities going on in support of diversity. Once a week, quotes are distributed that are diversity related and I loved the one I received today and thought to share. If only the rest of the world would agree... maybe peace would then be possible. Live & let live.

wellness

2007-09-19T14:51:00.001-04:00

I never realized how sick I was until I finally started feeling better recently. Wow! I actually CAN get out of bed in the morning and I feel like I have energy to get me through the day. I don't have my daily neck and shoulder pain. I don't feel so drained that all I think of is how I can't wait to get on my couch. I actually look forward to seeing people and doing things. I feel calmer and better able to deal with life. It's a very empowering feeling. I never agreed with those who say if you got your health you have everything... I always said that having money helped too. But I now see their point. I'm still in the same financial situation, but I feel better able to deal with it. Of course, this new healthy feeling came with taking a medication that was only temporary. So I don't know how long this new healthy feeling and new attitude will last. However, I soon will be switching my daily long-term medication that hopefully will be in my system in a more constant basis and I can hang onto this new healthy me.

PLUS.... wondering what the beautiful picture of the pool has to do with all of this? Well... after thinking about swimming for the past YEAR or so to the point of giving me headaches.... I decided to actually go swimming. I've had access to an indoor pool since 2005 and never went. Correction... I took water aerobic classes for a little while (as well as other classes), but then stopped. Now I go for laps and find it to be pure relaxing joy. I hope I keep at it as my doctor said it's one of the best form of exercise that addresses my pain/stress/etc. issues as well as getting fit/losing weight (hopefully!). So I am very proud of myself for going, I'm glad I love it as much as I do and hope I stick with it.

This is perfect timing since at work we're promoting a new ongoing wellness program. My manager and I are heading this program and I always thought it's better to lead by example. In fact, I just came back from a seminar in the city where we were told that it's not enough to help those who are sick, but it is just as important to help those who are healthy, stay healthy.

So here's to feeling better & staying healthy!

september

2007-09-10T17:05:00.000-04:00

Wow... it's September already. Hope you all had a great summer. Mine was ok. Without a couple of major changes, I'm pretty much still stuck. The way things are going, it doesn't look like these changes will be coming anytime fast. So I'll just hang in there the best I can. * I did hear that my services will be for hire again through the YMCA's Enrichment program this year... so I am looking forward to having some fun with the kids doing improv and other creative variations. * Thank you to those who stopped by and try to wake me up. I do appreciate it. Did you do anything exciting this summer?

too long

2007-05-29T19:26:00.000-04:00

It's been too long, I know. Nobody may even be checking my blog anymore. But if anybody is still out there... This is what has been going on recently: desprately needed a new muffler, Mio needed emergency surgery, I needed an emergecy root canal, my mom's car got hit, my brother's health took a turn and he'll be on an experimental treatment soon.... that's about all I'll list for now. I'm sure you get the point. Sometimes, "when it rains, it pours" fits so well.

Hope you all are doing well. I'll try to make my rounds to check-in on my usual suspects soon. Take care!

snow, quote & comment

2007-04-07T13:22:00.000-04:00

I would love to chat with Mother Nature. We didn't have snow for Chrismas (and other holidays around the same time), but the forecast says we may have snow tomorrow for Easter. Lovely. Anyway...

Did you see the movie Pay it Forward? Here's a quote that reminded me of that movie:

The point is not to payback kindness but to pass it on. - Julia Alvarez

Something my mother always says is how she doesn't appreciate when let's say she gives someone a tiramisu' and they immediately return an apple pie. Really... what's the point? I see how she feels is an example of both the movie and the above quote. She thinks it's better that the person give the apple pie to someone else that can appreciate it more. It's not neccessry to immeadiatly think of something to pay back my mom, she rather you be there in time of need when she cannot do something and maybe you can and are willing to help out if and when that time comes. Or better yet, do something nice for someone else. Another saying is "What goes around, comes around." In case that's true, we should all pay kindness forward. And hey... we can never know when a friend can't be around and a blessing comes from a stranger.

quote & comment

2007-03-13T17:32:00.000-04:00

"Leisure is an essential part of life, so remember to treat yourself right!" ~Ann Osborne

I must agree with Ann. To me, there nothing like escaping to Aruba. The weather is perfect. At least in the resort I stayed in (twice), it was like paradise. Nobody constanly chanting out loud, "Braids pretty lady?" or "Peanuts!!" or "Try watersports?" If you want action, you simply book your heart's desire at the activity desk. But when you are laying at the beach or poolside, nobody bothered you at all. And that's how I like my vacations. I can't wait to go back to Aruba. After seeing this quote, I think it's a sign.... :)

new blogger

2007-03-03T13:12:00.000-05:00

Well I was forced to "upgrade" and it took forever. What's the difference? Anyway, here we are in the new blogger. So... how is everyone? Hope well. I don't even feel like listing my saga since the new boiler was installed. At least I have heat and hot water... who can ask for anything more? Somthing to look forward to is that I have 3 classes lined up to teach in the upcoming Spring session. My current Improv class is going well... this class was a challenge, but I got through to them and we are having a lot of fun. Kids never cease to amaze me. More later. Happy March :)

perspective

2007-02-08T11:22:00.000-05:00

Boy... I'm getting really bad with this bloging thing! I've been at home since Tuesday with no heat and no hot water. Need a new boiler - can't afford one - but need one regardless! Can't leave the house for long with all these heaters going and water running. Wasn't allowed to work from home, not even half days. Can't do laundry. Whatever.

There are worse things going on. For example: a friend from work told me that a mutual friend also from work was telling her on Tuesday about friends of his (the whole family) got into a major car accident Sunday night - the wife died, the husband is in a coma, the baby broke his/her legs and there are 2 other children that are ok and have no clue their mother is gone. He also mentioned his own mom being in the hospital.... well, the following day we found out his mom died.

I can sit here with heaters on and running water until tomorrow when my boiler will be replaced. No problem. Deduct me 4 vacation days. I'll catch up with work best I can upon my return. Leave a message after the beep. Beep!

hello 2007

2007-01-13T11:36:00.000-05:00

I am soooooo glad 2006 is over and done with. What can I say... it just did not agree with me very much. So far 2007 seems to be a much better fit for me and for that, I am VERY grateful. I look forward to a better year.

So my new Franklin planner for 2007 is "Her Point of View (POV)". I'm a "her" and I have many point of views, but the planner provides quotes from many "hers" and their point of view. I find it appropriate that this is the first quote I'm sharing with you and wish you all a lot of FUN this year!!

Fun isn't really something you have. It's something you create. ~ Kristin Price

good-bye 2006

2006-12-31T10:57:00.000-05:00

May 2007 be the best year yet!!
Happy New Year to all :)

tis the season

2006-12-09T15:01:00.000-05:00

Wow... I almost forgot I even had a blog. It's just been that kind of year and I'm dragging now that we're almost at the end. May the new year bring us all blessings we need and want... may all those who had a rough '06 be granted a break in '07. Happy holidays to all and to all a good-night!!

stronger

2006-11-18T13:09:00.000-05:00

They say that which does not kill you makes you stronger, right? I guess I'm pretty strong then. Don't feel it right now in this moment, but that is what they say.

On a brighter note: the enrichment classes are going very well - I'm loving these kids!

Thanksgiving is around the corner - hope you all have a yummy turkey day :)

better than therapy

2006-10-28T11:26:00.000-04:00

Yea - I've been lazy about posting and keeping up with other blogs - just have not been feeling well. But something that has been helping (as it always has) is teaching the enrichment classes. I especially appreciate the children at this current school - they "get it."

All my issues... health, financial, or otherwise dissapear during these classes. And something not very often seen is that you can tell these children are also taught well at home by their parents as well as in the school. These are smart and caring children who I am thankful that they will be our future. I am proud to be a small part of their lives. And based on their enthusiasm when they see me and the eagerness to find out what we will be doing in class demonstrates to me that they are glad to know me too. This is better than therapy.

Junniper ~ you are awesome, thanks for checking in on me :)

three times a charm

2006-10-09T10:12:00.000-04:00

Last week one of my enrichment classes began. The school is really cool - beautiful grounds. The kids are incredible - there was an immediate connection. All was well with the world now that I was back teaching again!

I met the director after class and to make the day even more special, I was offered to think about teaching a third class!

So I thought to add a Creative Writing/Drawing class. I will prompt the class in various ways (a poem, a random thought, something in the classroom) to write/draw whatever comes to mind and then share with the class. The sharing of their work is to see the different ways to interpret something and/or how there can be similarities and then talk about it.

I took a class like this and found it to be a lot of fun. The feedback I received was also very helpful to me. Maybe one day I'll actually take action to get something published. But for now, I'm really looking forward to this new class :)

enrichment programs

2006-10-01T10:39:00.000-04:00

On Friday, I received bad news and good news.

The bad news was that there was no enrollment for any classes offered in the time slot my 2 classes were scheduled for through the enrichment program at the YMCA :(

The good news was that I was offered to teach both classes at another school under the same enrichment program :)

So I begin teaching next week both my classes: Everybody is a Star and Once Upon a Story. The first being an improv class, the second being a spin off as the class together creates a story, then I print each student a copy, they design their own copy of the book, and then we act it out.

Can't wait!

kingda ka

2006-09-28T18:19:00.000-04:00

Kingda Ka!
I see I have not mentioned that I conquered the tallest and fastest roller coaster on earth: KINGDA KA!

This freak of a ride is located at 6 Flags Great Adventure in New Jersey.

OMG. This is one SICK ride and I would love to meet the person/people responsible for creating it and those who approved it.

Kingda Ka pushes you to 128 mph in 3.5 SECONDS and goes up 45 stories high! Once up there, the ride kind of goes into slow motion until it pushes you back down. I normally scream and laugh on roller coasters - from the moment the ride moved, I opened my mouth to scream and... NOTHING. Everything, including my voice, just froze in astonishment. Absolutely CRAZY. I still can't believe it!

one word

2006-09-11T14:08:00.000-04:00

Remember...

i'm bringing improv back

2006-08-30T18:54:00.000-04:00

Love him or hate him - Justin Timberlake's "Sexy Back" has a great punch to that beat. Justin will be performing at the MTV Video Music Awards show tomorrow night. For me, the VMA's is the mark of Summer saying good-bye (much like the 6 days of rain we've been having!) as back-to-school Fall arrives. And it's also the time I'm bringing Improv back into my blog - yeah!

I'm looking to teach 2 classes this coming semester that begins early October: Improv & Once Upon a Story. These classes are through the YMCA's enrichment program. I hope there's enough enrollment for both classes to run. I miss this.

They say find a passion and make it your work... well it's not that easy. I'm grateful I was at least able to make one of my passions a small portion of my life. I've said it before, teaching Improv to kids is like therapy to me. Of course, there are challenges at times with behavioral issues - but I only have them an hour each class - I can deal with that!

quote & comment

2006-08-22T19:31:00.000-04:00

For the happiest life, days should be rigorously planned, nights left open to chance ~ Mignon McLaughlin

Well.... I plan big picture, I don't sit down to list my goals for tomorrow, 5 years, etc. That's just not me. However, I am very organized and know what needs to be done when, I have a planner for both work and play (that's where I get most of the quotes from). Anyway, just listing goals doesn't make anything happen. Taking action makes things happen. Then again, it's very non-improvish to rigorously plan anything and as most of you know, I'm an improv girl. Don't get me wrong, I plan - just not rigously :)

Summer is going by very fast. I hope you are all enjoying as much of it as possible. Best!

all in the stars

2006-08-15T17:13:00.000-04:00

I've been feeling in not a very social mood lately. I actually feel uncomfortable inside when put in a social setting. I was about to sneak out of a conference room this afternoon, when a collegue asked me where was I going and telling me to stay and hang out awhile. Later I explained how I've been feeling and that was the only reason I was attempting my exit until she caught me. Well, she then shared with me that it must be something in the stars or something because she felt the same and is a fellow Gemini. Any other fellow Gemini's feeling it too? And let me tell you... it's not normal for me (or Gemini's in general) to feel unsocial. But it has happned lately with all that's going on in my rollercoaster ride of life.

And speaking of life:

Don't ever confuse the two, your life and your work. The second is only a part of the first ~ Anna Quindlen

what sound do you hate?

2006-08-01T16:42:00.000-04:00

Last night I saw The Actor's Studio's interview with Hugh Laurie (hope I got the name right, but it's Dr. House from the show House) - love him, love the show. If you have never seen these interviews, they end with the same questions. One of the questions being, "what sound do you hate the most" and Hugh replied, "the phone".

And I thought I was the only one!! I truly HATE the sound of the phone and have become very good at ignoring my house phone. My cell phone not so much. But my house phone is pretty much non-existent to me. I'm just not a phone girl, I can e-mail away, but the phone can keep ringing for all I care.

And did you know that Hugh is from England with sexy accent and all? I founf out only a couple weeks ago and it just made him that much more appealing to me! When complimented on his great American accent, the interviewer James something or other who normally does not show much spunk asked Hugh would you like to hear me attempt your accent, and he sat back on the chair, crossed his arms and said, "yes!" After he did James asked, "did that suck?".... I can't believe Mr. non-tv-personality-dot-all-the-i's-and-cross-all-the-t's said "suck!" Especially referring to himself!! But I must say I love these interviews, he does get the nitty gritty out into the open.

So I leave you with a quote:

We would care less about what others think of us if we realized how seldom they do. ~Ethel Barret

Thought this was hysterical because I feel the same since I feel all alone in the world sometimes. But then again, it is also sad. Mostly hysterical though. Or I'm just plain crazy!

over a month

2006-07-11T17:07:00.000-04:00

Ok, so I didn't realize it's been over a month I've posted something. Besides health issues, at work we have a new system that doesn't allow me access to blogger.com and post. Not even sure if I could comment on other blogs or if only view them. So those 2 being the biggest reasons and then the fact that this year just doesn't seem to agree with my very well making life a bit more frustrating - I apologize for my disappearance.

I appreciate the comments in my last post and encourangement to get back on the ball! I will be checking in more frequently - I hope. And I will check-up on my favorite blogs. I hope you all are doing well.

To start things off, today's quote is actually a question:

How old would you be if you didn't know how old you were? -Satchel Paige

not dead

2006-06-09T09:24:00.000-04:00

Just in case anyone has been checking in... I'm not dead.... just not feeling well and under treatment. Hope everyone is well. Be back soon :)

improv @ the Y ~ week 8 ~ the finale

2006-05-30T17:31:00.000-04:00

Well I must say.... the last class was a lot of fun. We did all their favorites. And I was even told that I would be missed. How about that!

Again, it's been hectic so I'll post when I can. Hope everyone had a nice holiday weekend!

improv @ the Y ~ week 7

2006-05-22T13:17:00.000-04:00

Yes, this is all I write about these days because these past few weeks have been very hectic. I have not even been visiting other blogs as much (sorry!). Anyway, last week's class went very well. We had fun - all of us. Yes, all. They ALL had to participate and they ALL had fun... imagine that. This Thursday is the last class and I told them we can repeat there favorite games/skits.... almost there!

improv @ the Y - week 6

2006-05-16T15:02:00.000-04:00

Well....... after deciding who will be joining in the class and who had no interest and me telling them ALL I could just go home.... the class carried on and we had fun. How about that. All that nagging to then have fun. I never experienced something like this. All previous classes (and most have been recorded through previous posts) have been awesome and exciting. That's how I got to calling teaching Improv to kids my therapy. Well this has become more of a challenge than therapy! If offered, I may decline teaching other semesters at the Y unless the kids specifically enroll in the class. Otherwise, there is no real interest, it's just something they have to do. And that's just not how it works. Improv takes a bit of passion, minimal interest at the very least, for it to work. Only 2 more classes to go!

improv @ the Y ~ week 5

2006-05-09T18:06:00.000-04:00

Oops... forgot to post last week that the class was much better again. It's been a rollercoaster ride! A couple of kids who normally cause friction did not participate. A couple other kids that are very creative unfortunately also decided to opt out, but I don't blame them for getting a bit bored as I've mentioned these kids are not all on the same level. The remainder of the class however were fun and we had a great time. At this point, I don't know what to expect for the remaining semester... guess I'm just gonna go with the flow.

quote & comment

2006-05-04T15:13:00.000-04:00

If you think a complimentary thought about someone, don't just think it. Dare to compliment people and pass on compliments to them from others. ~ Catherine Ponder

YEA!

improv @ the Y ~ week 4

2006-04-28T14:51:00.000-04:00

We are half way through the semester and all is.... ok. I guess I had high expectations from last week which was a great class. This week was just ok. Between kids being picked up while we're still in class and a couple of behavioral issues - it's made this class a bit more challenging. One skit had to be cut short because it just was not working. We moved on to "clap pass" because they all really like it and I really needed they to focus and work together. We did something similar to 1-2-3-4-3-2-1 using themes.... again... as kids get pulled out of class we're left to pick up the pieces and make it work. We had a few rounds of "Bus Stop" till end of class and that was that. Better luck next week.

quote, comment, and question...

2006-04-26T07:46:00.000-04:00

A good cook is like a sorceress who dispenses happiness ~ Elsa Schiaparelli

I really like this quote. My brother at times calls me to make him buffalo chicken and it even makes me glad make it for him since it makes him happy. I made it for him and his friends for his last birthday get together and it made them all very happy too. Happiness is good. And it's wonderful when we can find happiness in the little things.

So... what do you cook that makes you or others happy?

improv @ the y ~ week 3

2006-04-21T19:41:00.000-04:00

Let me tell you.... once you break these kids out of their shells... they are OUT OF THEIR SHELLS!!! Wooooooo.... what a class on Thursday!! Laughter all around. I guess I really found their "it" thing. First we played "clap pass" and they really got into the game and in a good way. Meaning, they were into the competition part of it as well as the fun of the game. Then I introduced 1-2-3-4-3-2-1 where one person stars a monologue, the second person is added and changes the scene, the third person is added and changes the scene again and so forth.... then the last person up leaves and they go back to whatever the scene was before and so forth.... it end with the first person closing with their monologue. The trick for these kids is that I also explained how "conflict" can work in Impov... and that was it. And I mean "IT" as they were all awesome and hysterical. We ended the class with "Bus Stop" where one is waiting for the bus and another attempts to get the first person off the bench in very creative and funny ways. It's been a hectic week for me and I so appreciated how smoothly the class went and how much fun we all had.

Wishing everyone a great weekend :)

quote & comment

2006-04-11T08:16:00.000-04:00

We find a delight in the beauty and happiness of children that makes the heart too big for the body. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Thought this was a perfect quote in the absence of Improv this week due to the holidays. The things they say that astonish you or make you laugh... the way they look forward to seeing you... the way you can sometimes tell how you influence them.... it's a wonderful thing.

Hope you have a great week and nice holiday... whatever it may be that you celebrate!

improv @ the Y ~ week 2

2006-04-07T08:07:00.000-04:00

Well yesterday's class was a lot of fun! The kids got into the drama games a bit more and were well behaved. We had a little chat to review the first class where Improv was defined and the class was explained. Last week's activities included "transformation in a circle" where we passed around a red plastic ball that became a ring, a hat, a pimple.... you get the picture. "Walking Adventure" was interesting as the kids walked around the room listening to my voice guiding them through different scenarios. Yesterday we played "Sound & Movement" another circle game. Then each child presented a "Personal Commercial" where they told us about themselves in a fun way. Finally, they paired up to do a commercial in tandem - which were so cute! I guess by having 2 in a scene made them more comfortable and their personality really came through. Looking forward to next week :)

quote & comment

2006-04-05T11:47:00.000-04:00

If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning. ~ Catherine Aird

This just made me laugh and I had to share. Although the quote makes it's point... I don't think one has to be one or the other. I think there are time we all can be a "horrible warning" or at least a "gentle warning" and at other times be a "good example" maybe even a "great example."

What do you think? Which one are you?

improv @ the Y

2006-04-03T14:14:00.000-04:00

Well... if you ask me... those were NOT 2nd - 3rd grade children in my Improv class on Thursday. I think there's more of a mix than just those two grades. This makes it a bit of a challenge to not bore those who can follow and help the others keep up and not get frustrated. But all in all we had fun. I'll be better prepared next time. I'm just so glad to be back teaching Improv :)

improv class confirmed

2006-03-27T11:32:00.000-05:00

Oh I can't wait for Thursday!! Why, you ask? Well.... that's when my Improv class at the YMCA begins!! I will be teaching 2nd - 3rd grade students. I must say this is my favorite grade grouping because they are not only very creative, but they can actually follow basic Improv guidelines too. They continually impress me.

I've also said this in the beginning of past semesters, how for me Improv is not only a fun outlet - but it's like therapy. Therefore, I cannot wait to begin a new semester. Kids are awesome and they make you laugh and forget about the world and all it's problems for that hour you are with them. And Improv is also good for children as it teaches teamwork, it helps with their self-esteem, and communication skills.... it's all good :)

thank you thalia

2006-03-22T08:54:00.000-05:00

Thalia was very gracious yesterday and all smiles at the Kmart/March of Dimes event. To the left is a photo I took with my cell phone in the Kmart store at Penn Station as she was walking outside to meet some of her fans and then lead our mini-walk to Times Square.

Our conversation went something like this:

me: Thank you so much for taking the time to do this event for us.
her: Oh No problem, thank you.
me: You are very beautiful.
her: Gracias!
me: De Nada!
her: Ahh... bien!

Then off we went for our mini-walk with about a hundred of her fans chanting her name, singing her songs... it was very exciting.

special event

2006-03-21T09:20:00.000-05:00

Ok... guess where I'll be this afternoon? Meeting Thalia in NYC for a March of Dimes mini-walk promoting WalkAmerica. Click here http://www.thalia.com/flash.html to find out more about Thalia and the event I'll be at with her in a few hours :)

Know who else is a celebrity spokesperon for March of Dimes? Kelly Clarkson... my favorite American Idol winner so far! For more info on Kelly you can click here http://www.kellyclarkson.com/. I think it's very cool when celebrities take time out to help.

Saving Babies... Together
For more info on WalkAmerica and/or to make a donation
please click below for my personal web page ~ thank you!
http://www.walkamerica.org/personal_page.asp?w=489427&si=12B11B8F-059F-4007-A683-612156E4AB6E

song of the moment

2006-03-20T08:24:00.000-05:00

"Unwritten" by Natasha Bedingfield

I am unwritten, can't read my mind, I'm undefined
I'm just beginning, the pen's in my hand, ending unplanned

Staring at the blank page before you
Open up the dirty window
Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find
Reaching for something in the distance
So close you can almost taste it
Release your inhibitions
Feel the rain on your skin
No one else can feel it for you
Only you can let it in
No one else, no one else
Can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten

Oh, oh, oh I break tradition, sometimes my tries, are outside the lines
We've been conditioned to not make mistakes, but I can't live that way

Staring at the blank page before you...

quote & comment

2006-03-14T13:43:00.000-05:00

The days you work are the best days. ~Georgia O'Keeffe

Huh?

walkamerica 2006

2006-03-09T12:31:00.000-05:00

Please check out this link
http://www.walkamerica.org/personal_page.asp?w=489427&si=12B11B8F-059F-4007-A683-612156E4AB6E

to find out more about WalkAmerica

and if interested to also sponsor me.

Thank you for

Saving Babies... Together

quote & comment

2006-03-01T12:55:00.000-05:00

The more light you allow within you, the brighter the world you live in will be ~Shakti Gawain

Makes sense... now if everybody would follow this quote imagine how wonderfully bright the world would be! But in the meantime, as difficult as it may seem at times, don't allow anyone to dim your light.

There are times I feel the need to retreat into myself and I don't relate too much to the world around. I'd rather stay home with my puppy letting go of issues and just relax.... or thinking things through quietly with nobody else's opinions (as we know everyone else always seems to simply know how to make things better!) giving me more of a headache or steer me in a direction I didn't want to go. I think it's ok to take time to recharge once and awhile so we can shine on. Not snack on... SHINE on :)

I also interpret "light" as knowledge/tolerance. If we open our minds and learn to respect differences outside our comfort zone... others may follow... and the world be brighter in that sense as well. Or maybe I analyze too much!

no more becky on american idol :(

2006-02-24T07:29:00.000-05:00

So it's the end of the American Idol road for Becky. Ultimately, I believe it came down to song choice. Becky is a soprano who chose a very low range song. But she has gained much exposure and who knows where that will lead her. Best wishes Becky!! PS: Becky is a close second after Patrick on the American Idol web site for the poll asking to vote for the one you would bring back... then in third there's Stevie and coming in forth is Bobby.

improv on the horizon

2006-02-22T11:13:00.000-05:00

Oh... I am getting excited as the new after-school session will soon begin again at the YMCA. Hopefully, enrollment will be good and my Improv class will run! I miss the kids and I miss Improv. I am NOT a winter person at all and definitely need this uplifting therapy right about now. I cannot wait for spring time and the warmth of the sun!

american idol ~ team becky

2006-02-16T07:40:00.000-05:00

Ok America... it's up to you now! Check out Becky O'Donohue at http://www.idolonfox.com/. She made it to the top 24 on American Idol. Becky and her twin sister Jessie (who could not audition due to throat surgery) have been pursuing this dream since very young and now Becky has the opportunity to shine. So help bring her the spotlight!

snow storm'06

2006-02-13T09:53:00.000-05:00

Why Mommy?!

what are you waiting for?

2006-02-08T14:14:00.000-05:00

Begin somewhere; you cannot build a reputation on what you intend to do. ~Liz Smith

I don't know about "reputation" but it's been some time now that I've been thinking of exercising. If only thinking about it could count even just half as much as actually doing it, I'd be in pretty good shape right now. But no... all I do is keep thinking about it. Who knows, maybe one day I'll "Just do it!" For now I only INTEND to do so, no real plan of action. Whereas, once in awhile I do go back to my book project. Who knows if I'll ever submit anything to a publisher, but at least I do work on it every now and then.

What have you been intending to do? What are you waiting for? I'm giving us all the green light to go for it. Sometimes we just need to make that decision and take action.

Yea. I'll let you know the day I go to the gym. Just please don't hold your breath ;)

happy february

2006-02-01T13:53:00.000-05:00

January is O V E R baby! I'm feeling a bit better and hopefully I'll be more positive and the new year can start looking up. Better late than never. Regardless of crap going on that I do not agree with, right now I'm hanging on and looking forward to better days ahead. We'll see how long that lasts :)

A couple of interesting quotes to share:

When someone shows you who they are, believe them... the first time. ~Maya Angelou

What you risk reveals what you value. ~Jeanette Winterson

my joy

2006-01-26T13:48:00.000-05:00

No matter how horrible I feel,

No matter how crappy the day....

I go home to Mio and he makes it ok.

I love the Elvis face he makes and caught it!

What/who brings you joy?

2006

2006-01-24T14:11:00.000-05:00

So how has 2006 treated you so far? I must say that I'm not having a good year yet. I feel stuck. I've said that I want to make the difficult decisions right by me, but unfortunately one can't just change things with a wisp of a wand (how cool would that be!). Still daydreaming of Aruba. Anyway... let me know how your year has been so far. Hope well.

quote & question

2006-01-18T13:21:00.000-05:00

The effects of our actions may be postponed but they are never lost.

There is an inevitable reward for good deeds and an inescapable punishment for bad.

Meditate upon this truth, and seek always to earn good wages from Destiny.

~Wu Mig Fu

What do YOU think?

quote, comment, and question :)

2006-01-11T11:59:00.000-05:00

When I get overwhelmed I start mumbling to myself, "Aruba, Aruba, Arrrruba....!" Needless to say, Aruba has been my favorite vacation - most peaceful and relaxing. So I giggled when I came across this quote:

"That perfect tranquility of life, which is nowhere to be found but in retreat, a faithful friend, a good library..." ~Aphra Behn

One question remains... where is your retreat?

quote & comment

2006-01-04T15:22:00.000-05:00

A little of what you fancy does you good. ~Marie Lloyd

What Marie said. May 2006 bring us all a lot of what we fancy :)

favorite toy

2006-01-03T13:18:00.000-05:00

I hope every child (big & small) got something they love for the holiday as my Mio did... I call that picture penguin love :)

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* happy new year *

2005-12-27T13:41:00.000-05:00

I used to look forward to the New Year... that meant the current year would be done and in the past. Hopefully, a new and better year was to come. I would even write something to that effect in my planner on the Jan 1 page for inspiration. Then a few years ago I wrote something to this effect, "bla bla bla." As I live and learn, I take each day as it is granted to me and do the best I can. That's it. And no, I am not being pessimistic. I am being realistic based on my own experience in my life. I am very grateful for all my blessings (example: I tell Mio how grateful I am for him everyday!) , but I am also tired of many aspects of my life and not many can be controlled. Other aspects can be controlled and of course, I continue to try and make the right changes and decisions, no matter the challenges / difficulty. Sometimes we just get too comfortable and do not make the right changes / decisions by us. And then we keep getting frustrated. So something I will try is to begin making better decisions. Work-in-progress.

I was looking at my 2006 planner and thought the Jan 1 quote was pretty interesting and related to my post, so I'll share:

Keep a grateful journal. Every night, list five things that you are grateful for. What it will begin to do is change your perceptive of your day and life. ~Oprah Winfrey

PS: When I showed the above picture to my brother, he made me promise I would never do that to Mio again... because he's a BOY!

Happy New Year!

And may 2006 be your best New Year yet :)

principle-centered leadership

2005-12-21T11:30:00.000-05:00

Learn to lead yourself based on correct principles, and your effectiveness will soar when you lead others. Whether you lead a nation or a family, the 7 Habits will help you achieve great success as you apply them to the vital roles of leadership. ~ December's reflection from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Ok, a bit late. Better late than never? So this is the end of the monthly 7 Habits post. Each month around the 1st (except for this month!) I have shared the teachings of this book provided by the 2005 planner I have. I hope you have found something helpful.

Wishing you all success in whatever your dreams may be....... best!

* season's greetings *

2005-12-20T09:05:00.000-05:00

[Mio at about 3 months!]

This time of year can be very stressful.

Let's all take a moment to breathe, reflect,

and let go of any hurt or negativity and renew.

In the HOLIDAY SPIRIT,

whichever your holiday may be,

in respect to them all,

and including those who may not celebrate any...

Wishing you & your family

a wonderful holiday season full of

LOVE, PEACE, HEALTH, JOY...

and all the toys your heart desires!

I can't wait to give my Mio a new toy for Christmas...

He gets so excited :)

Wishing us all the best New Year yet!

the little things

2005-12-15T10:29:00.000-05:00

Most people are very hectic this time of year. I would like to point out the importance of including children during the Holiday season. It would be nice to include them in the meaning of the Holiday as well. Take time to hear about their day and things they have on their minds. It will be a nice break for you from all the stress and it will mean a lot to them to just dedicate some time to play around and giggle. Gifts, of course, is on their minds... but not everyone is lucky to have everything others do and it's nice to incorporate that... by maybe having the children pick out a gift for Toys for Tots and explain how much it will mean to the child that will receive it. Or by visiting an elderly neighbor, widow, or someone who has been ill.... Children bring joy and it would mean so much. It's the little things that truly count.

dows lane... week 9 / final

2005-12-12T16:28:00.000-05:00

Last class of the semester. It was sad saying good-bye. Especially since I could not promise I'd see them again. I did tell them that if I was offered to return, that I would. That's about all I could say. I wished them a happy holiday season and happy new year. I told them to be good. Some wanted to come home with me, one added, "and I'm serious about that." Although I laughed, it warmed my heart. Others wanted to take me home with them. And I was also asked for a "play date." Doesn't get any better than that! Since it was the last class, we fit as many favorites as we could. Before we knew it, parents came in to take the children home and it was time for last hugs. I must go play with my puppy now.

dows lane... week 8

2005-12-06T08:07:00.000-05:00

I believe we had the most fun in class yesterday. Creativity was flowing and we were all laughing basically the entire time. We had a quick Zig-Zag-Zog competition. Then went on to "Machine" where each child would become one part of the machine (the entire group) making a sound & movement. Of course, to make this fun you have them go faster, then slower, then faster again, etc. The class then got divided into two groups and each group took a trip to anywhere they wanted and took pictures that they would have to pose for and explain.... and we just went from there to all sorts of fun. Witnessing the dynamics of this talented group is really something. The best part of course is noticing how they all rush to be the one next to me! But for the first time, I must admit I am NOT looking forward to next week. And that would only be because next week is the last class for this semester :(

dove's promises message III

2005-11-30T09:01:00.000-05:00

Learn something from everyone you meet

I love this message. Especially when it comes to those who are different than us, we should take the opportunity to learn from them. Who knows... we may find out they are not that different from us afterall. Or we may come to understand the reasons for the difference. Or we can just find ourselves being able to accept the difference and appreciate them anyway.

Just this past Improv class I had to explain to a little girl that not everyone celebrates Christmas, so that she could understand why her teamates were not too keen to have that be their theme. I suggested having winter be their theme instead, so she was still able to include Christmas in the skit and it worked very well.

It's all abour respecting others as we should be respected in return.

dows lane... week 7

2005-11-28T16:37:00.000-05:00

After I shared my sad Thanksgiving story of no turkey, no mashed potato, and no corn with my little people today.... I felt nothing but LOVE from this group! Their support and understanding of this most unusual and disturbing event, truly filled me like my Thanksgiving dinner did NOT! I have always said that teaching Improv to children was like therapy for me and I must say how very thankful I am to have this opportunity and honor.

As the Improv intensity level rises, these actors continue to impress. After a little warm up, we did 1-2-3-4-3-2-1 scenes with themes. The class got divided into 2 groups and they had to select a theme. Then the scene would begin with 1 person, then a second would join changing the scene within the theme, then the third person would join changing the scene again, and then the forth doing the same. Then the forth would leave the scene and the rest would return to the scene to when they were 3, then the third person would leave, and the rest would return to the scene when they were 2, until there was one. Confusing? Well THEY pulled this off and I was very proud of them! We then played something I created and named Treasure Box which was a lot of fun and their creative minds came out to play. We finished with a clap-pass competition and ran out of time.

Cannot wait until next week.... :)

dows lane... week 6

2005-11-22T08:28:00.000-05:00

So when asked what comes to mind with Thanksgiving around the corner: turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, yucky looking but yummy stuffing, pilgrims, eating... all the typical answers were represented. Then finally... one child said "being thankful" and we had some fun with that. We played some warm-up games when the class broke out into a plea for more Bus Stop... which I could not deny. We ended the class with another request of scenes with location and emotion given to each team and that will be continued next week. Until then... Happy Thanksgiving!

the nature of children's play

2005-11-21T12:38:00.000-05:00

Interesting article on Kid Source Online by David Fernie. Here are excerpts especially related to Improv:

In play, children expand their understanding of themselves and others, their knowledge of the physical world, and their ability to communicate with peers and adults.

Games With Rules
Children become interested in formal games with peers by age five or younger. Older children's more logical and socialized ways of thinking make it possible for them to play games together. Games with rules are the most prominent form of play during middle childhood (Piaget, 1962).
The main organizing element in game play consists of explicit rules which guide children's group behavior. Game play is very organized in comparison to sociodramatic play. Games usually involve two or more sides, competition, and agreed-upon criteria for determining a winner. Children use games flexibly to meet social and intellectual needs. For example, choosing sides may affirm friendship and a pecking order. Games provide children with shared activities and goals. Children often negotiate rules in order to create the game they wish to play (King, 1986). They can learn reasoning strategies and skills from strategy games like checkers. In these games, children must consider at the same time both offensive alternatives and the need for defense. Many card games encourage awareness of mathematics and of the psychology of opponents. Such games can be intellectually motivating parts of pre- and primary school curriculum (Kamii & DeVries, 1980, Kamii, 1985).

The Adult Role In Children's Play
These general guidelines may be helpful:

Value children's play and talk to children about their play. Adults often say "I like the way you're working," but rarely, "I like the way you're playing."
Play with children when it is appropriate, especially during the early years. If adults pay attention to and engage in children's play, children get the message that play is valuable.
Create a playful atmosphere. It is important for adults to provide materials which children can explore and adapt in play.
When play appears to be stuck or unproductive, offer a new prop, suggest new roles, or provide new experiences, such as a field trip.
Intervene to ensure safe play. Even in older children's play, social conflicts often occur when children try to negotiate. Adults can help when children cannot solve these conflicts by themselves (Caldwell, 1977). Adults should identify play which has led to problems for particular children. They should check materials and equipment for safety. Finally, adults should make children aware of any hidden risks in physical challenges they set for themselves.

For the entire article and more info go to:
http://www.kidsource.com/kidsource/content2/nature.of.childs.play.html

dows lane... week 5

2005-11-14T16:06:00.000-05:00

My little stars played Bus Stop again, as promised last week. For the second round, they were urged to be more creative in coming up with reasons why the other person would leave the bench vs just being "annoying" as they like to call it... and they did. We also created scenes that took us to locations such as: jungle, castle, forest, bank, school yard, and spaceship.... with emotions that had one or all: sad, happy, angry, afraid, worried and shy. It was interesting how with a few comments, the second time around the scenes had a life of its own. These are very talented kids.

quote & comment

2005-11-10T12:24:00.000-05:00

Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind, the second is to be kind, and the third is to be kind. ~ Henry James

This is something I truly enforce in my classes. Respect for others is very important, not only in Improv, but in life. Adults can use reminding as well. It goes back to what we learned in kindergarten, "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all."

dows lane... week 4

2005-11-08T11:13:00.000-05:00

I was very late!! So I used it for class. It's an Improv thing to see how creative the excuses for being late can get. And everyone had some pretty interesting excuses. Then we played what obviously turned out to be the class favorite: BUS STOP. The kids did not want to stop and I promised we would do these skits again next week. What was interesting is that this skit requires 2 actors and they all wanted to be in the skit with me! So I promised that they all will have a turn to be in the skit with me next week as well as them all having another turn or maybe two :)

habit 7: sharpen the saw

2005-11-03T11:22:00.000-05:00

Investing in Habit 7 is possibly the greatest investment you will ever make on your own behalf. To be truly effective, you not only need to recognize the importance of renewing yourself in four areas - physically, socially/emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, but you also need to do so consistently, every day if possible.

~November’s reflection of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

This is something I need to take seriously into account. Especially the part in needing to do so consistently. Work-in-progress. Hope this post helps as a reminder to others as well. Best.

PS: Having a sweet puppy-dog helps :)

dows lane... week 3

2005-11-01T07:39:00.000-05:00

So yesterday we had our 3rd class. Some came in costume, some did not, but all were in full character since our running theme was... can anyone guess? Anyone? Yes... HALLOWEEN! Theatre games were also played in our theme. We made up a Halloween story... well... sort of.... see pink unicorns kept popping into the story, but anyway.... we then acted it out. In another game we first stated why we didn't like another character and later state why we did like another character, then that character would go up and do the same and so forth. One had said to me that her character doesn't like anyone... I told her to make something up. And let me tell you... she found a way to connect her character with another and make the scene work. She used the fact that they both always wore black. I was very impressed. Looking forward to next week! Hope everyone had a great Halloween night... boo!

dows lane... week 2

2005-10-24T16:15:00.000-04:00

So we acted silly again and laughed and had fun. Last week we focused on emotions, this week we focused on action. Both last week and this week the class was at times broken into groups so they can work together and perform as a team. Afterall, Improv is a group form. I explained it's important to listen to eveyone's idea and that they all can be great, but then they must decide together which is the best idea for the task on hand. They can keep the other idea's in mind for something else we may do. We played a few circle theatre games that work on attention, action, and of course... fun. The last game (clap pass) had "outs" and to make that fun too.... I have each child "melt" when they are out. And at the end of class, we all melted into a puddle. Sometimes... we just all need to become a puddle to then face the rest of the week! See you next Monday :)

Thank you to any class parents visiting for the first time... 1) welcome, 2) please see the first post on this class "hello dows lane" posted on 10/18/05 and, 3) please visit again!

the power of play

2005-10-19T07:53:00.000-04:00

In the September edition of Scholastic’s Early Childhood Today magazine was an article by Elena Bodrova, Ph.D. and Deborah J. Leong, Ph.D., "Why children Need Play." Here is an edited version of the article’s main points that I found very interesting and of course, is 100% related to my reason and method of teaching Improv to children. ~

"There is a growing body of research that shows a link between play and the development of cognitive and social skills that are prerequisites for learning more complex concepts as children get older. For example, play is linked to growth in memory, self-regulation, oral language, and recognizing symbols. It has been linked to higher levels of school adjustment and increased social development. Play has also been linked to increased literacy skills and other area of academic learning (a view held by Piagetian and Vygotskian therios of child development).

Play is especially beneficial to children’s learning when it reaches a certain degree of sophistication. Play that has a potential for fostering many areas of young children’s development, has the following characteristics: 1) Children create a pretend scenario by negotiating and talking to peers and use props in a symbolic way; and 2) Children create specific roles – and rules – for pretend behavior and adopt multiple themes and multiple roles.

Teachers of entering school-agers do hope that the children who come into their classrooms can concentrate, pay attention, and be considerate of others. These areas are developed not by using flashcards or computer programs, but through interacting with peers during play.

This is the cornerstone for all learning, and we need to stand firm in our support of play."

hello dows lane!

2005-10-18T09:33:00.000-04:00

Yesterday was the first Improv class at Dows Lane! I have 9 children between grades 1-3. Some have spunck and some are low key... but let me tell you... they all are very creative and I can already tell we have one very fun semester ahead of us. Normally, it takes at least a couple of classes before the children start thinking outside the box. However, in this group we already have those who have performed: as a rock, as fire, as cheese.... with accents... even as a future president! There was lots of laughter at the end as we all got silly (yes, including me!). I met many of the parents after class which was very nice. Looking forward to next week :)

what reality do you live in?

2005-10-13T14:33:00.000-04:00

Today's thought based on The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People:

Insecure people think that all reality should be amenable to their paradigms. They have a high need to mold others into their own way of thinking. They don't realize that the very stregnth of the relationship is in having another point of view. Sameness is not oneness; uniformity is not unity. Unity, or oneness, is complementariness, not sameness.

In life, diversity should be respected. Live and let live. If we allow ourselves to open our eyes and minds, we may learn and understand more - therefore do better. We don't have to agree or become the same... just respect other's and their way in their life and them you can uphold the same in return. But when one does not give respect, it is very difficult to give it back.

In Improv, you must be open to go with the flow of another.... or you kill the schene. You can rarely allow the word "no" or negate anyone else's statement. You must accept what it called "the gift" and add on so that the scene can progress further. Over time, a group learns to give & take so that everyone can have a say as to where the scene is going.

morse classes cancelled!

2005-10-06T13:52:00.000-04:00

To my shock, today I was advised that both of my after-school classes at Morse (through the YMCA Enrichment Program) were cancelled this semester. Enrollment was down due to an Academic program that runs all week and only leaves Wednesday open for many of the students to join in an Enrichment class. I'm glad for the children, but will miss them terribly.

Emotionally, teaching Improv to children is my therapy. Financially, I was looking forward to the income. But they say that when a door shuts in your face, a window opens... and there is a possibility that a Saturday class can be offered at the YMCA itself starting in November. We'll see if that happens.

In the meantime, I am grateful for the Enrichment class beginning on Oct 17th at Dows Lane. I have 9 children enrolled. More on that later.

habit 6: synergize

2005-10-03T13:33:00.000-04:00

Synergy celebrates differences, teamwork, open-mindness, and finding new and better ways. Habit 6 teaches you the art of creative cooperation. Synergy just doesn't happen. It's a process through which you can create Third Alternatives - solutions that weren't there to begin with; solutions you might never have discovered on your own.

-October reflection from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

LOVE this one! Never knew there was a name for how I like to work best - SYNERGY. No place for ego, just lets brainstorm and * together * find the better way. There is no * I * in team. And what you have to say, is just as important as what others have to say, so listen. And again, this can be totally related to Improv. I guess that is why Improv attracts me so much and why I have such a desire to teach Improv to children. Why can't we all just get along?!

off-stage moment

2005-09-28T14:12:00.000-04:00

I just had to re-post my picture with Carolyn Kepchur. It was GREAT meeting her. Mrs. Kepchur is calm, cool, and comedic in person... very soft spoken and gracious. Check out my original, "Every Woman's Conference" post dated 11/6/04 for more details on our first encounter. Yes, I did say 'first' encounter, because there was a second encounter! Mrs. Kepchur came to my work place and spoke for one of our events. Of course, I approached her and reminded her of our first encounter (you must read the original post to understand what I am referring to) and she did remember! We shared a laugh, she took another picture with me, and I was lucky enough to be in her audience for another great speech. I love hearing when famous people act "human" and I am glad to report that Carolyn Kepchur must be tough in the business she is in order to succeed, but she also is a wonderful person and it was my pleasure to have met her in person. With the new season of The Apprentice, I just thought it was a nice time to revisit these moments.

back to school... back to improv!

2005-09-27T15:10:00.000-04:00

A week from today the new after-school session begins and I am very excited! Welcome to any new visitor to my blog. I would like to re-post a couple of entries. I feel these entries are important to better understand the purpose of my blog and what I do. Comments are welcome from anyone and are appreciated. Best!

The Beginning... originally posted on 9/30/04
Welcome... to my first web site (blog) and to my first post! The beginning of something new. Some people may feel a bit anxious when they approach the beginning of something new (a new chapter in their lives, experience a change, or are confronted with a challenge). Very normal. Not me. At this not this time! It may be my enthusiasm in everything I venture to do or the fact that I am one who naturally appreciates living and learning, growing and bettering oneself. Not to say that stress does not have its place in my life, but my creative mind pushes me to follow my passion. Of course, with a dose of reality! I guess what I'm saying is that my inquisitive and adaptable mind allows me to continually observe and learn new things as I explore life in it's various facets. Children see everything with new eyes and they are curious and share their thoughts freely while accepting others views (well... that can be debated, but in my Improv classes every child feels validated). These days, parents are way too busy and it is difficult to pay all the attention children need, especially for single parents. That is where I come in! I do not want to be just another teacher/instructor that comes along in their lives. I want to make a difference, an impact! I want to be there for them in a supportive way and help them learn, live, laugh... there's much more to say so come back and check it out, ok?!

My Improv Mission and Method… originally posted on 10/2/04
I've mentioned how I feel Improv can relieve stress, basically by providing an outlet, which by the way is true for adults as well as children. My mission is to reach out to as many children possible and provide them this safe and fun outlet for their energy, enthusiasm and spirit. I want to help expand their creative minds while learning Improv skills and having so much fun that they don't even realize what incredible life lessons are incorporated. You may ask, what lessons? When taught in the specific method I do, there is emphasis on teamwork, building self-confidence and refining communication skills. It also teaches to be open to others suggestions and idea's, furthermore to encourage the talent in others and respect them as the same courtesy is given in return. Improv is not only a talent, but also a powerful tool that can assist us in our daily lives. The best part is that it's for everybody: any age, either gender, any level... just let go and have fun!

Quote & Comment

2005-09-26T11:59:00.000-04:00

Let go of your attachment to being right, and suddenly, your mind is more open. You're able to benefit from the unique viewpoints of others, without being crippled by your own judgement. - Ralph Marston

I don't know... I feel that I am pretty open minded (to a fault at times) and I attempt to benefit from the unique viewpoints of others (which many times are not very unique at all!) and do not consider myself crippled with judgment (I am a live & let live kind of person). I just happen to be right most of the time anyway! Maybe someone else can shed more light on this one. It just seemed to say something really good that we all should follow, but I think I'm already following it :) And when I happen to be wrong, I've learned to own it.

In my Improv classes, I teach how listening to others is just as important as action and emotion and keeping the scene going, etc. And sometimes, the scene may not be going where you intended it to go... but go with the flow you must or it will not be in the best interest of the scene or the audience.

Off-Stage Moment

2005-09-23T12:27:00.000-04:00

Although I keep this an Improv related blog, I have decided it's ok to have an "off-stage moment" from time to time.

I fully realize life is unfair. We might have been created equal, but we are not treated equal, nor do we all have equal lives. I understand that there are times when I am being blessed with something in my life and another is not... and vice versa. That's how it goes. We have good days, we have bad days, and levels in-between. It's what keeps life interesting, us on our toes, and the world going round. Etc. Having said that.... it is very frustrating when you do all you can do to improve a situation and nothing. It is even more frustrating and hurtful when you find out someone else accomplished what you were looking to accomplish for yourself with them not having done all they can do, but by pretty much cheating. I will spare the details, as the details really don't matter. This can be related to various situations in life.

Now some may think that I would have resentment towards the person who cheated. No, I do not. That has nothing to do with me, it's between: themselves, their God, and their conscience. Instead, my focus is on the decision-maker for allowing the accomplishment. It is very disappointing when someone proves to be not as just as you had thought. Especially when in the position where it would call for the person to be just.

I need to figure out how not to feel stuck in this situation and make things better for me. I also need to keep things in perspective... a job is a job... even a career is a career... it's not who we are or what defines us as a person. My father always told me that. We can take pride in our work, but our work should not be our pride (or joy for that matter!). Work-in-progress.

When the disappointment comes from a family member, the hurt goes much deeper and I have been there too. It takes longer to heal, but it can be done. If I've done that, I guess I'll know how to find my way through this too. It's just disappointing when you are being denied success and you feel stuck not knowing how to change the situation. But what I realize (thanks to very special collegues/friends), is that if I cannot change the situation, I must change how I react/think/behave... because that's truly the only thing I have control over. Leaving really wouldn't solve much because there are no guarantees that I will not run into the same situation elsewhere.

I guess what it comes down to is that we must find our way to our own happiness. And we must keep things in perspective. My heart goes out to all effected by Katrina and Rita.... my thoughts and prayers for your safety and road to recovery are with you. Hang in there.

Dove Promises Message II

2005-09-19T08:37:00.000-04:00

Wow... after so many silly messages found in the Dove chocolate squares, I actually came across another one (see 9/15/05 post for the first) that is very much related to Improv. They are all pretty simple messages, but sometimes, bringing it down to simple is what we need.

Don't think about it so much.

And I also believe that OVER analyzing anything is not very productive unless you are attempting to give yourself a headache.

Ugh... SPAM!

2005-09-15T10:01:00.000-04:00

Unfortunately, SPAM has reached my blog. Therefore, "word verification" was added to the comments process. Only takes a second longer, still annoying. But we must do what we must do, right? Thank you to all those who visit & comment. Very much appreciated :)

Dove Promises Message

2005-09-15T08:12:00.000-04:00

I add a Dove caramel chocolate square in my coffee and I wanted to share the Promises Message from today's square:

Test your own limits and keep going.

This is very much encouraged in Improv. And as many other Improv basics, I believe this is a very good standard for all of us in our daily lives in order to live a fulfilled life. Wishing you all the best.... May all your dreams come true :)

Back-to-School...

2005-09-06T12:25:00.000-04:00

Every single year around this time I would get bronchitis. Nothing would help. It was horrible, especially with having to go back to school. But eventually, one doctor advised that going back to school could have been the triggering factor. But then why would it last until around the holidays in December? Wouldn't you think that after a week or so it would clear up? I still get bronchitis and upper respiratory infections at times, it's just not by each September anymore.

As children go back to school, some may feel excited, some may feel anxiety.... just let them know that how they feel is normal... don't say for example, "there is nothing to be fearful of...!" Help them ease into their new schedule and everything will fall into place in no time.

I cannot wait for my after-school sessions to begin in October.... will be posting updates as usual :)

Holiday!

2005-09-02T11:47:00.000-04:00

Wishing you all a very happy & safe holiday weekend! And for all the back-to-school students an awesome school year :)

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood

2005-09-01T13:55:00.000-04:00

Understanding is the key to communicating, and you can't truly understand another person until you learn to listen first. Habit 5 helps you listen empathically to others. If helps you see that it takes courage and consideration to listen openly and sincerely. When others feel understood, they will then seek to understand you.

~September relection of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Well, yea I guess so. And when there is no conflict, I can say I am a pretty good listener. But when there is conflict… that's a different story. Work-in-progress. But to again make the connection to Improv... listening is one of the most important and effective tools to make a scene work. In fact there is a game I have the kids play to make a point. One sits in between 2 others who I have tell the person in the middle what they did that day at the same time. Then we ask the person to tell the class what each said and other questions. Of course, I also point out the importance of speaking one at a time. I've always said communication is key... but I am a Gemini :)

Stick to the truth...

2005-08-31T15:07:00.000-04:00

With any horrifying event, I believe that the best way to handle these matters with children is to stick to the truth. Let them know what is happening and confirm that it is horrible so that it justifies their feelings of fear or concern. They should know that how we (including them) are feeling is a normal reaction to what is happening. Speaking of reaction… we should take responsibility on how we react ourselves so that the children have a good lead to follow. And we must remember that they are children and need to know they are safe. They must have a sense of understanding that what is happening is not in our immediate area so that they may continue a normal routine, especially with back-to-school time here. Of course for those who are closer to devastation, the safety part may be difficult, but still important. Instructions for ‘just in case’ so that they know what to do that may help them in an event that would otherwise be worse without that knowledge should be included. Children are smarter than we think and they will get information from somewhere. I feel it is best that it comes from their parents and/or adults in their life they love and trust. My thoughts and prayers to all whom are going through terrible and life altering events… not only in our country, but the world.

Perfect for Improv....

2005-08-26T11:04:00.000-04:00

You are dependable, popular, and observant. Deep and thoughtful, you are prone to moodiness. In fact, your emotions tend to influence everything you do. You are unique, creative, and expressive. You don't mind waving your freak flag every once and a while. And lucky for you, most people find your weird ways charming!

I think that is perfect for Improv. To find out what you are, you must go to http://junniper.blogspot.com/ under the post, "You can call me Grace."

Too busy?

2005-08-22T13:18:00.000-04:00

Before I get into this topic, I would like to say I am not a parent nor a child psychologist. However, I am around children and was one myself :)

There are certain parents that keep saying how their child needs to be kept busy or they will get bored. Well... I agree that planning events is a good idea (especially if it involves the parents themselves to spend quality time with their children), but I do not agree with planning the entire calendar full of things to do and places to be. I believe that it is healthy for children to figure out for themselves what they want to do sometimes. This way, they truly find what it is they like to do.

Thinking back, I feel that I got my creativity from my non-planned time as a child. I would set up my stuffed animals around me as my audience and I would entertain them... and myself as well. I didn't always need someone to tell me how to spend my time or someone to give me a project to keep me busy.

Having said that, I don't feel that I missed out on anything either. In fact, just the other day I was listing for my mom all the things I remember doing as a child. I remember pony rides, Tibets park (great pool!), parades, Bronx Zoo, Playland... trips to Virginia, Italy, Niagara Falls, Albany.... ballet and tap dance classes, swimming lessons, ice skating.... summer day camps.... the list goes on. But again, I remember reading books, making up my own stories and songs, dancing, playing out favorite tv shows, etc.... all this expanded my creativity without having to feel that every minute of each day is planned and scheduled. I mean really.... don't children have time for learning how to schedule and prioritize and rush through their days and all that when they're adults?

Fall Schedule

2005-08-13T13:02:00.000-04:00

My Fall schedule is working out nicely. I continue teaching at Morse Elementary school through the Tarrytown YMCA twice a week (Improv & Once Upon a Story). Then once a week I will begin teaching Improv at Dows Lane Elementary school in Irvington. Looking forward to seeing my kids again! Enjoy the rest of the summer :)

Habit 4: Think Win - Win

2005-08-02T08:24:00.000-04:00

If you win, I lose. If I win, you lose. Are you tired of playing tht game? Habit 4 changes your paradigm about winning. People can help each other win, even in the competitive world of work. Habit 4 is the habit of mutual benefit and respect - getting along well with others. It's about building long-term relationships in every area of your life.

~ August reflection from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Again... this is the basis of Improv. What if we could extend it further and make it our basis of life?

Different Drummers

2005-07-15T09:51:00.000-04:00

Excerpted from Please Understand Me II Copyright © 1998 by David Keirsey

If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong. Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view. Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly. Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be. I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.

I may be your spouse, your parent, your offsping, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me.

To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.
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In the beginning of every session, I emphasize how important it is to work together in Improv. I stress how I expect the class help one another and work as a team in order for the skits and games to flow. They do not have to be best friends outside my class, but in my class I teach how to appreciate one another and respect one another. Especially in one school, I have a very diverse student body and it is very important to me to get them to learn from one another and grow as a person as well as an artist. (Yes, I call them my little people and tell them they are stars, artists, and entertainers in my class).

But what if we all did the same in every day life? We do not have to agree, but respect other's differences. With some civil communication, maybe we can even understand them. This can help us all in the work place, at school, memberships.... anywhere. It is very important to me that children learn this and grow with open minds, it benefits them and everyone around them. This is my meathod of teaching Improv, to me it all goes hand in hand.

~ everybody is a *star* ~

wow...

change

time

hello....

back to work

babies

nothing

holidays

reach for the stars

quote & comment

wellness

september

too long

snow, quote & comment

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new blogger

perspective

hello 2007

good-bye 2006

tis the season

stronger

better than therapy

three times a charm

enrichment programs

kingda ka

one word

i'm bringing improv back

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all in the stars

what sound do you hate?

over a month

not dead

improv @ the Y ~ week 8 ~ the finale

improv @ the Y ~ week 7

improv @ the Y - week 6

improv @ the Y ~ week 5

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improv @ the Y ~ week 4

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improv @ the y ~ week 3

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improv @ the Y ~ week 2

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improv @ the Y

improv class confirmed

thank you thalia

special event

song of the moment

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walkamerica 2006

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no more becky on american idol :(

improv on the horizon

american idol ~ team becky

snow storm'06

what are you waiting for?

happy february

my joy

2006

quote & question

quote, comment, and question :)

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favorite toy

* happy new year *

principle-centered leadership

* season's greetings *

the little things

dows lane... week 9 / final

dows lane... week 8

dove's promises message III

dows lane... week 7

dows lane... week 6

the nature of children's play

dows lane... week 5

quote & comment

dows lane... week 4

habit 7: sharpen the saw

dows lane... week 3

dows lane... week 2

~ everybody is a star ~